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Inhibited
Self-censor, hold back, restrain, curtail desire. What is the distinction between being inhibited and being polite? Or being inhibited...

Bravebutafraid
Jul 17, 20232 min read
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Meditation
Yesterday I was filled with rage and frustration, so I ran. Up the hill, through the gates, across the campus, and to my favorite local...

Bravebutafraid
Jul 16, 20232 min read
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Boogie boarding upside down
I don't know if I have five minutes or five and a half hours. I feel frenetic and overflowing. There's so much I must urgently write...

Bravebutafraid
Jul 13, 20235 min read
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Eggshell Doctrine
During torts class in law school I learned about the eggshell doctrine. It states that if someone is injured due to to another person's...

Bravebutafraid
Jul 10, 20233 min read
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Arcade
7/7/23 Today we went to the arcade. Like many modern amusements, including water parks and scratch-off tickets, this type of frivolous...

Bravebutafraid
Jul 10, 20232 min read
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Getting unstuck
In Pooh Goes Visiting by A.A. Milne, Pooh visits his friend Rabbit. Pooh has a snack of course, and his round little belly gets stuck...

Bravebutafraid
Jul 6, 20234 min read
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What is a disability, even?
If we're going to go around labeling people, I like "nonconforming" much better. Disability is such a fraught term. At first, when I...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 30, 20236 min read
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218 BPM
I imagine that if my life had a soundtrack, the majority of the score would be set to a frenetic 218 beats per minute. Tick tick tick...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 28, 20233 min read
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Evolution
It's been 11 days of post-school busy-ness. Another ear infection, a birthday party, equine therapy and occupational therapy, late...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 27, 20233 min read
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Forgiveness
There's a scene in This is 40 where Leslie Mann's character loses her shit at a 13-year old as he's walking to class. The boy has...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 16, 20233 min read
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Stumbling is necessary
Yesterday B had her behavioral health checkup. Her anxiety and OCD are being successfully managed, thanks to therapy and a tiny amount of...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 16, 20231 min read
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Je refuse - The Data
Today is the last day of school for B and C. It's a wrap on 3rd and K. Before I describe this morning, here's this year's data....

Bravebutafraid
Jun 16, 20232 min read
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Automaton
I'm not quite sure how this metaphor will unfold, but I've been thinking about automatons and the way I choose to live my life. The first...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 15, 20233 min read
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Complimentary but distinct
What I'm gleaning from smart ladies with life experience: Need vs Want. The more honest you are with yourself The more honest you are...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 13, 20231 min read
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Invitations
This birthday weekend was one for the books. My son invited his entire kindergarten class to celebrate with me on Friday because he "knew...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 12, 20233 min read
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Fragility
It must be nice to be a Man, capital M man, Man whose M is flipped to be a W for White, Man the representative noun, except it's not...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 12, 20231 min read
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Flora, fauna, and food
Why does everything I see in the garden remind me of something else (usually food)? The bumble bee is my drunken chef: White sugar stuck...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 12, 20231 min read
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Lost scissors
My daughter is living art. I talk about my son a lot -- the squeaky wheel, and all that -- but my daughter is equally precious and...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 8, 20232 min read
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It is better to speak
For those of us who live at the shoreline standing upon the constant edges of decision crucial and alone... and when we speak we are...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 7, 20231 min read
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A practice in goodbyes
I think Parenting, done right, is just a practice in saying goodbye. Goodbye, my love. Go out into this fathomless world where I can't...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 6, 20231 min read
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